right age

bnudes

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Tuesday, April 14th 2009, 5:01am

HI, there are people here from all over the world so I wanted to get some idea of how attitudes vary from one place to another regarding the right age to begin having sexual relations. I do not mean the age that its legal but what the people here think is right and should be legal.

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Anwärter

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Tuesday, April 14th 2009, 5:24am

RE: right age

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Originally posted by bnudes
HI, there are people here from all over the world so I wanted to get some idea of how attitudes vary from one place to another regarding the right age to begin having sexual relations. I do not mean the age that its legal but what the people here think is right and should be legal.

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Danee

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Friday, April 17th 2009, 7:06pm

In my humble opinion, it is the right age, when one has the maturity, education and interest in keeping that education and knowledge, and all the things one is about to enter with that part of life.

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strongbowww

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Saturday, April 18th 2009, 3:03am

oh come on, i would understand this question if this is the "worried parents helpline forums"

but you are a young guy, just try things out, but dont forget about safety, than nothing can go wrong

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Saturday, April 18th 2009, 5:19am

Strongbow,, what gave you the idea I had not done anything. What I have or have not done has nothing to do with the question I was asking. I was just trying to see how attitudes varied around the world as to the right age to begin.

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strongbowww

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Saturday, April 18th 2009, 1:18pm

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Original von bnudes
Strongbow,, what gave you the idea I had not done anything. What I have or have not done has nothing to do with the question I was asking. I was just trying to see how attitudes varied around the world as to the right age to begin.

well, it is the same answer for a "general question"

as long as you are a responsible person, i see no reason why one should not have sexual relations

most parents do not believe this, but actually as long as you dont give your son/daughter a chastity belt, you can never be sure what he/she does, so i personally believe, that its better for them to decide on their own and act responsibly, than just have intercourse/whatever because they want some kind of "revenge" on you

p.s. but if i have to name a number, i would say >14 for having sex

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Danee

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Saturday, April 18th 2009, 5:39pm

Age doesnt matter, I say again with utmost conviction, as long as what I said above is the case and situation.

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lilpuss

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Monday, April 20th 2009, 1:22pm

Some people will never be old enough. Just look around your neighborhood. Not only will they never be the 'right age,' they should definitely never have kids.

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Monday, April 20th 2009, 4:54pm

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Some people will never be old enough. Just look around your neighborhood. Not only will they never be the 'right age,' they should definitely never have kids.

to say it with metallica:
"Sad but true"

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Tuesday, April 21st 2009, 6:52pm

Well, as I know from my friends, for them the right moment was in the age of 14 to 17. But, the "mainstream" was at 15-16, and I think that is the right age.
Of course it depends on the maturity and the responsibility they can handle...

But bnudes, do you have a special occasion to ask?

Es gibt 10 Arten von Menschen auf der Welt: Diejenigen die Binär verstehen, und diejenigen, die es nicht tun.

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Tuesday, April 21st 2009, 6:59pm

i know that a lot have thier first sex up to the age of 13+,
i rather think that about 15+ is the "right age"

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EB-Fortgeschrittener

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Tuesday, April 21st 2009, 11:52pm

I think Haswurst has it about right. Most kids start having some kind of sexual experience at about 13 and probably are not ready for penetrating intercourse until 16+. Safety (HIV prevention, etc) and pregnancy prevention are the biggest concerns once fluids start to flow between two people.

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Textiler

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Thursday, May 7th 2009, 8:22pm

right age is when both parties feel comfortable and are reasonably mature enough to make the decision.... if i had to put an age on it.... 15 i guess.

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benjaperu

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Saturday, May 9th 2009, 12:47am

From what I can see (und understand) in German TV Afternoon Talkshows, there are more and more poeple below 14 who start to have sex. Am not sure if this is right or not

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Textiler

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Saturday, May 9th 2009, 1:59am

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Originally posted by benjaperu
From what I can see (und understand) in German TV Afternoon Talkshows, there are more and more poeple below 14 who start to have sex. Am not sure if this is right or not

i think this is inevitable with the way society is progressing!

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jimmyed1981

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Tuesday, May 12th 2009, 11:56am

I think any time after 16 is fine

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hiall23

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Monday, May 25th 2009, 9:40pm

ok this is my first time doing this so i'm not sure if i'm doing it right

ware i live people are having sex at the age of 14 in my opinion that is to young but i guess when your mature enouph to understand the consiquenses to haveing sex then your at the right age but mabey hold off untill at least 16

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sunlover83

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Wednesday, June 17th 2009, 6:48pm

Very simple question.

And a very simple answer. When both partners are financially able, emotionally prepared, WANT to have, care for, educate, a baby and realize that their sex act could bring a new life into the world....having sex is o.k.!

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frylock02

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Friday, June 19th 2009, 4:58pm

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Originally posted by sunlover83
Very simple question.

And a very simple answer. When both partners are financially able, emotionally prepared, WANT to have, care for, educate, a baby and realize that their sex act could bring a new life into the world....having sex is o.k.!

Agreed