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Wednesday, March 12th 2008, 8:10pm

foreskin?

hi guys.

well, i am a (relatively) young naturist. sadly, when i was young i had a tight foreskin, and the doctor chose to circumcise (grr). now in england ald also germany most kids of my age - in fact most kids of all ages and adults have foreskin. i was wandering a few things:

a) would you/do you notice if someone doesnt have foreskin?
b) do you think it matters?
c) do you have foreskin

i am going to try restoring, as i really do want foreskin - it is a natural part of the body and it is a real shame it was taken away :(

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Wednesday, March 12th 2008, 11:54pm

noone - msybe i would have got more replies from the german section - people have viewed it - please answer!!
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Thursday, March 13th 2008, 1:20am

RE: foreskin?

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Originally posted by carpy
hi guys.

well, i am a (relatively) young naturist. sadly, when i was young i had a tight foreskin, and the doctor chose to circumcise (grr). now in england ald also germany most kids of my age - in fact most kids of all ages and adults have foreskin. i was wandering a few things:

a) would you/do you notice if someone doesnt have foreskin?
b) do you think it matters?
c) do you have foreskin

i am going to try restoring, as i really do want foreskin - it is a natural part of the body and it is a real shame it was taken away :(

Alex


a) If you look closely, you notice. In a naturist environment, people are not supposed to have such a close look.
b) If it doesn't disturb you to have fun, why should it matter?
c) Girls usually don't have foreskin :D (only hood)

Is it possible to restore?
It is not a shame if it's taken away for medical reasons. It is also not a shame if you decided so by yourself as an adult. It is a shame if somebody decided for you for non-medical reasons in some early age - not shame on you, but a shame on decision makers. But if already so, look at b)

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Thursday, March 13th 2008, 10:56am

U should act normally.
i have friends that have no foreskin...and it is no difference to me. i mean...totally no difference.
don`t think about it ;)

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Thursday, March 13th 2008, 2:40pm

Hi Alex,

I totally agree on what my previous speaker said. Restoring is possible in many cases. As far as I know it depends a lot on the style how you were circumcized.

It might surprise you that many German and Dutch boys and males who are NOT circumcized pull their foreskin back while going to Sauna or nude swimming. But you should never ask them for the reason why coz their reaction will be very aggressive. Probably they felt caught. ;) I made this experience in this forum.

From my point of view being circumcised is nothing to worry about as far as you are happy with it. If not, I wish you the best doctors to help you restoring your foreskin.

Can you say which part of the foreskin was removed - the inner or the outer?
Is there still skin left - was it a tight or a loose circumcision?

Best wishes
Pascal


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a+b) Well I don't care. :) Normally I look people at their face and not at their willy :D
c) I have a foreskin. On the one side I considered to be circumcised because I find it looks better. On the other side the negative effects were too strong for me. ;)
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Thursday, March 13th 2008, 2:42pm

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Original von m4rkv4der
U should act normally.
i have friends that have no foreskin...and it is no difference to me. i mean...totally no difference.
don`t think about it ;)


You're also circumcized or did you just pull back the foreskin for taking the picture? ;)
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Thursday, March 13th 2008, 2:48pm

Ah, i´ve been waiting for Pascal, our foreskin-scientist here :P :D ;)

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Thursday, March 13th 2008, 7:19pm

Hi Alex

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Original von FKK1978
Ah, i´ve been waiting for Pascal, our foreskin-scientist here :P :D ;)


You see what I mean? :rolleyes:

This Topic is absolutely a no-no! You may wish to write about your favorite hairstyle in your intimate zone, post photos of your half erected dick, whatever… but never write about foreskin. This is a very problematic topic because you offend other people in their low self-esteem without wanting or even knowing it.

I'm sorry for our double moral standard but even I couldn't change it! Therefore we need to accept it and make the best out of it.

So keep this topic a secret and ask for professional help. Regarded to the doctors it's often advisable to have more than one opinion - so feel free to ask more than one.


And be sure that no one on this cute little planet will take your circumcision amiss! :)

Nevertheless I want to encourage you to restore your foreskin. *thumbsup*

Best wishes
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Friday, March 14th 2008, 5:30pm

the circumsicion was relatively tight, but there are still a few ways of restoring.

either way, i was just interested of other peoples opinions, and also whether i was right in thinking i am a minority!!

oh, and it was for medical reasons, but it was also laziness on the part of the doctor. it was tight, but apparently not that bad so it really wasnt necessary

thanks for the reptlies

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Friday, March 14th 2008, 8:14pm

Hi Alex :)

many males are circumcised - also in western culture. Following Information I found on Wikipedia it's about 45-55% (more in the USA than in Europe). Fortunately the tendency is decreasing, especially regarded to the cicumcision of newborn.

So don't worry about being an outsider because of your circumcision.
I wish you the very best to get your foreskin back!

By the way, when I was young (yes, long time ago) I also had struggles with my foreskin. The doctor suggested a cut on two sides but finally it wasn't necessary. :)

Good Luck!

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Friday, March 14th 2008, 9:26pm

I was also circumsized, so I sometimes get into the focus when having sauna or going to the nudist beach, but it does not disturb me. Also I do not feel as a "member of a minority".

After all I very much enjoy being circumsized, also it is more hygienical.

I just can suggest every boy to get circumsized.

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Friday, March 14th 2008, 10:01pm

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After all I very much enjoy being circumsized, also it is more hygienical.
I just can suggest every boy to get circumsized.


Happy having clean water and soap as much as want we can lose sight of hygienical reasons I think.
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Friday, March 14th 2008, 10:24pm

I agree to you Pascal.

However, the country I normally live in is in shortage of water, and its much more hot and humid then here... so easily the population of germs will emerge.

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Friday, March 14th 2008, 10:32pm

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I agree to you Pascal.

However, the country I normally live in is in shortage of water, and its much more hot and humid then here... so easily the population of germs will emerge.


I also agree with you. :) In cases like this it might be an advantage. Probably also the original reason for circumcision by Jews and Muslims is related to this problem. As far as I know not all Muslims are circumcised - it might depends on their area of living.
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Saturday, March 15th 2008, 12:50am

Alex, when one brings up this topic in a naturist forum, it will last forever, I can assure you. (no double meanings are implied here bois!).

I usually do not post on the subject as it is so common and often, it's a troll who just wants controversy. I am not saying that is you, for sure. You are 16, be happy with your cockie! Its fine! As an American naturist, most bois I have seen are circumsized and that doesnt make them less or more then a boi who is not. I have never 'been totally intimate' with one who was not, but both look great and I think you wont find many bois who are, who regret it. Some? Sure. But I think they dwell on it too much myself. I know only a few European bois who are but they look great too so, I'll just say my final advice is to be happy and confident and that, is the end of that!

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Saturday, March 15th 2008, 4:27am

Hi Danee

I often recognize that girls like to write in topic which bore them. ;-)

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Well I think the core meaning is to be satisfied with oneself. Therefore both directions can be supported – the one who wants to get rid of his foreskin but also the one who wants to restore it.

Regarded to the utterances of boys who are circumcised it must be considered that in many cases they did not have the chance to experience the difference and that often there is no way back. So either they don’t know how it is having a foreskin or they would question their own decision that it was wrong (and often no way back). It poses the problem that a once-made decision cannot be revoked in many cases. So it’s always easier to stick to the decision than to question it all.

Of course I don’t want to challenge that many males, especially those who had the opportunity to decide themselves, are satisfied with their circumcision. And to return to the entrance statement: both directions should be respected – restoring and circumcise (as long as it respects human rights).

By the way I want to thank you all for this exchange of views and opinions. Alex, I hope it helps! :)
For one year it was the first time for me to write in English. Also I want to thank for this opportunity to get some practice. Hopefully I didn’t make too many serious mistakes. ;) Otherwise feel free to tell me the serious mistakes (PN). ;)

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Saturday, March 15th 2008, 5:02am

Thanks Pascal and your comments make total sense. I did not say it bored me, as it does not. I said, it was a very common question on naturist forums and put in various ways.

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Sunday, March 16th 2008, 2:42am

This topic is always gauranteed to generate many replies no matter what forum it is on .......

Anyway, I can speak from experience on the matter. I was not circumcised at birth, & had no wish to ever be circumcised. Alas, about 3 years ago, things changed & I suffered badly from something called paraphemosis.

I shan't go into too many details in public, suffice to say it was very unpleasant & sore. I had a partial circumcision done under a local anaesthetic, watching a huge needle being tugged through my foreskin to tidy things up & believe me, it was a scary sight. I was advised by the doctor at the time that I might need to go for the full thing & sadly, he was right so 4 months later I was under the knife. This time, it was a general so I saw nothing.

I can laugh about it all now (the whole story is amusing, honest) but, I do miss having my foreskin at times. On holiday's in Florida, at resorts or nude beaches, it was generally pretty easy to tell the European's from the locals. However, I can say that the pluses far outweigh the minuses & I'm sure in time you'll find out for yourself, Alex. That plus, most girls do prefer circumcised cockies (great word, Danee!) when it comes to the physical sie of things.

Hopefully nobody is offended by the above.

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Sunday, March 16th 2008, 6:12pm

It may look better without a foreskin, but I prefer to keep mine and just skin it back whenever I fancy....

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Sunday, March 16th 2008, 10:33pm

Quoted

Originally posted by Pascal83

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Original von m4rkv4der
U should act normally.
i have friends that have no foreskin...and it is no difference to me. i mean...totally no difference.
don`t think about it ;)


You're also circumcized or did you just pull back the foreskin for taking the picture? ;)


i am not circumcized...but it takes only to be a bit arroused and my foreskin pulls itself back. it is beacuse it is not long at all....

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